Valli Kemp, back in Australia after 14 years. "A big difference is that there is less interest in why you're not married, but what people are obsessed with is why you don't have a baby," she says.

Valli Kemp, back in Australia after 14 years. "A big difference is that there is less interest in why you're not married, but what people are obsessed with is why you don't have a baby," she says. September 26, 1984. (Photo by Stuart William MacGladrie/Fairfax Media via Getty Images).